Trained to Please You, or to Help You?
As people turn to chatbots for advice and support, most models are still trained on what users approve of in the moment. In an ICML 2026 position paper, Ashton Anderson, Harsh Kumar, Louis Tay, and Karina Vold argue that this objective is incomplete in well-being settings and call for at least one widely accessible, opt-in well-being mode trained and evaluated for longer-horizon outcomes, organized around three tensions: When, Who, and How.




































